User blog comment:Pastelpill/Friend Problems/@comment-26285531-20160604024950

I know so. many. people who are like this. Two-faced, essentially—totally different around another set of people than when they're around you. Of course, I can't generalize anyone outside of the boundaries of who I've known & met, but from your blog I'm supposing that your friend is a bit shallow in the sense that they're not loyal and do things for attention or popularity instead of sticking by someone. I'm not going to say 'just leave her behind' because that's definitely not the easiest thing to do, but (surprisingly) I would try to be friends with them again. I'd try to avoid talking about certain subjects that could provoke an argument, and instead focusing on rebuilding your friendship. I don't know if it's just me, but I hate having some pending argument with someone, I just need to resolve it or I always overthink what I could have done different and never get over it. Either just go for it or wait it out. One of my friends who I was very close with, had a massive argument with me over the simplest thing, and ended up dodging me by texting my other friend about it. And honestly, even though she was entirely rude to me irl, I just ignored her and moved on with my life and after some time & summer break, we're pretty much friends again. So don't give up on a friendship ever, even if you think it can't be fixed, because if you really care about that person you can change things for the better, I'm sure.