User blog comment:Forestpaw13/Help me.../@comment-1839575-20100613082934

Just say that you know they cut themselves and that you can help them (not with cutting themselves!) and that you don't want to lose them because they are special to you. Try and confide some stuff in them and they'll probably respond by confiding stuff back.

((XD your local lawyer and psychologist, Zaffie, comes to the rescue!))

Seriously, you need to let them know you know. Sharing the burden will help, unless they get mad at you... think about how you think your friend will respond. I mean, you know them better than we do...