User blog comment:Pastelpill/Friend Problems *update*/@comment-34633311-20161206232514

Agreeing with what Bird said below - slamming someone who betrayed me isn't what my natural instinct tells me to do. Don't be offended by this, but I'd say you both look at each other's problems and try to understand each other. That way she won't end up completely isolated - who knows, she might be dealing with stuff that you're completely unaware of.

However, if she does end up being as toxic as she seems, you have plenty of right to point out her faults. I don't necessarily agree with it being aggressive - but if she does take offense to it, don't apologize, unless you're also being aggressive. I've always tried to resolve my issues with my friends, and that's normally how it goes - they end up proving to me that they care about our friendship. I'd say give her one last chance, but point out her faults if you must so she can know how to improve her reputation, because nobody likes being the odd one out. I know I certainly didn't, and I'm sure she wouldn't either.

I'm just trying to balance here - I personally think that finding a way to neutralize things is easier than dealing with her anger or potentially leaving her out and making her feel terrible.