User blog comment:Pastelpill/Friend Problems *update*/@comment-1956227-20161206202906

Okay well

Coming from someone who's had several friends betray them and has almost crippling social anxiety due to it, I'm going to put my two cents in it.

Now, for your question would I feel satisfied 'slamming anybody that betrayed me?'

Frankly? No.

Why? Well, because in my eyes, that makes you no better than them. If I need that little bit of satisfaction, I'm not going to stoop to that level because I know I'm better than that, because if I need that satisfaction and turn to that, you're just becoming what you hate most.

I hate those people, they're no better then the people they point at.

That's my opinion at least. As for my advice, I don't have a lot, ignore her, or if you really want to 'slam' be polite, I'm not saying be friends with her, god no. You don't need that toxicity in your life.

The best way to beat someone like that is to be patient and nice. Is that hard to do? Yes, but a lot more satisfying because aftera while, what they say or do makes you stop caring much less, and they're not getting what they want in that case, which is usually because they're immature.